Story Massage for Babies and Children

Building respect and positive relationships

The shared connection of massage stories can help children see the benefits of being kind and respectful to others. Children are nurturing and caring in a safe and positive way that some may not have been able to access or express before. They become more sensitive to how their own actions and emotions can influence those of others. Over time, it can encourage discussion of concerns or anxieties in a safe and nurturing context, helping to foster positive, trusting bonds.

One-to-one sessions with an adult can enhance a child’s awareness of being valued and brings a sense of self-worth. Stories can be chosen on topics such as making friends or having a new baby in the family.

Regulating difficult emotions

Sharing a massage story can help to calm a child at stressful times such as leaving a parent at the start of the day or after an argument with a friend. This simple interaction can help soothe and focus children, so they are able to move on to the next activity in a more positive frame of mind. Children also start to recognise that sharing a massage story can be used to help others when they are feeling sad or need some time to relax.

Learning co-operation skills

The shared experience of writing and giving/receiving massage stories can help children to support each other. They will often work together to become more self-aware and develop self-esteem. Examples could be writing a personalised massage story for a child’s birthday, preparing for an outing or learning the ‘rules’ of the group. Celebrating different cultural events though massage stories provides opportunities for respectful reflection on the ways in which people from different cultures mark special occasions on their calendar.

Relaxation of mind and body

Story Massage sessions can offer a dedicated ‘calm time’, helping children to learn the essential life skill of conscious relaxation through first-hand experience. Children learn to ‘switch-off’ and enjoy the benefits of recharging and refreshing mind and body. The shared activity of a Story Massage session promotes ‘feel-good’ hormones including oxytocin, which helps to boost general well-being.

Promoting literacy and creativity

The storytelling element of the activity helps encourage children’s imagination and desire to read and write simple stories. It offers a chance for children to explore topics from a new angle, and develop a wider vocabulary.  

If you'd like me to visit to demonstrate Story Massage, or if you want details of one of my regular groups, please Contact me.